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In the city of High Point, in a matter of days, several violent crimes including murder, armed robbery, and a brutal home invasion, have been tied to teens. High Point Police admit the trend is disturbing. Part of the rise, they say, can be tied to gang activity. In fact,  for the first time, we heard on Tuesday that the murder of Josh Sweitzer, the Lucky Mart clerk who was gunned down last Halloween, was killed by an alleged member of the Crips gang. Police say they are stymied as an already overwhelmed legal system has to cull through court proceedings, trying to cherry pick those who actually end up going to overcrowded jails and those who stay on the streets... only, as we've seen in the case of Eve Carson, they stay out to commit more crimes. So, what's the answer? Build more jails? Create more rehabilitation programs? Make the parents of these "children" accountable for their actions? How do we put a tournaquet on this surge in violence where some kids who aren't old enough to vote, let alone drive, don't seem to have any value for human life? Any ideas?
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cook2712 read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 8:18 AM

Yeah I have a lot of ideas, most of them I cant share. Here's a thought, let the punishment fit the crime. And yes build more rooms inside the barbed wire....tent city. Boot camp for "under age" in tent city. They should be punished first for their crime (total time sentenced) then rehabilitation. The sentence should be served before any rehabilitation begins.

sirwilliam read my blog
Mar 26, 2008 | 9:18 AM

I agree with you,Cook! Boot camp would be a excellent idea. Put them in the middle of a desert with some hard nosed Marine Sargeant to serve their punishment! And rehabilitation is a joke!

DW45 read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 9:42 AM

We need to start enforcing the laws we have, and I don't care if the jail is over crowded.....It IS jail - PUNISHMENT - and there is a reason they're there...

Already, one of Eva Carson's killers is off the potential "Death Row" sentence...because of his YOUNG age...He was old enough to assault her, steal her cash, & vehicle, and kill the woman for absolutely no reason...I don't have the slightest bit of sympathy for either of the little SOBs, and I hope he's raped every hour, on the hour, for the next 25 years that we'll all be paying for his miserable existence in prison, all the while breathing air that my dog could use....

That could have just as easily been your daughter, or mine, killed indiscrimanently, for no other reason than being in the wrong place at the wrong time.....because those 2 fools were broke, and needed a ride -

flatch read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 9:43 AM

I like the ideas of cook and SirW. However, making the parents responsible is good also. Maybe if the parents are fearful enough of going to jail they'll think twice about cranking out more potential vermin and go to the doc for some snip-snip surgery.

deadlinediva read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 5:29 PM

As I was out doing yet another story of a teen crime today, one man told me he believes stricter discipline in school is what is needed - and at home. (I don't know about ya'll, but my dad did NOT spare the rod!!!)
Another man told me it was when corporal punishment was removed from public schools that things began to go bad. And yet another says it was when God was taken out of schools. Any thoughts on this?

flatch read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 5:49 PM

Flatch knows he's delusional, but God and corporal punishment begin at home, you know, with those elusive things called parents.

School is where you learn. We didn't have corporal punishment where I was schooled, but if I stepped out of line, I got plenty of humuliation at home from (watch closely!) my parents.

flatch read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 5:50 PM

Yeah, I got humiliation as well as humuliation.

Sorry about that. I docked myself 3000 Viking Points for my faux pas.

ladyred2007 read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 6:22 PM

I was punished with the belt. I was taught to respect my elders. There is a certain amount of fear that comes with respect. If you don't fear a reprecussion from those you respect...then you will lose respect. Yes, we took corporal punishment out of schools and that wasn't good. If you spit on a teacher, why shouldn't you get your butt swiped by that teacher? Schools are horrible now. I am so glad my son is not in public school anymore. Before he left, his band teacher was sleeping with a classmate of his. Parents have gotten lazy and now expect the school, the daycare and the "village" to raise their kids for them. It doesn't take a village to raise my kid. It takes parents who aren't afraid to whip some butt when it is needed and to give praise when it is due...and who knows where their kid is every minute of every day. That is what it takes to raise a kid.
Also..you cannot always blame a parent for what their kid does. You can have three kids from the same parents and two turn out great and one turn out to be the bad apple...it is human nature and things like that happen. Sometimes the kid needs to face the music for what they do...after the age of 12..they know what is right and wrong. Blame and punish them....not the parents.

ladyred2007 read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 6:32 PM

One more thought...removing God and the basic fundamentals of being a good and honest person is the worst thing they could have ever done. How can you expect the morals of our society to survive when you are not reminded daily that God is watching and loves you, regardless of how much money you have or what shoes you wear. God is the foundation that our great country was built on. Values. Morals. Love. Too many people seem to forget that. You may have your right to believe what you want, but we have the right to do the same. If you don't like hearing about God, ignore it. If you don't like seeing God's words, ignore them. If you don't like that America was founded on a belief in God, then find somewhere else to live. Do you think if you moved to another country they would remove their religious beliefs from every structure they were posted on, just because you believed something different? I think not. I am sure they would remove you before they would remove the religious materials.

Just-Me-07 read my blog
Mar 26, 2008 | 6:51 PM

Removing God and punishment from the schools are the biggest problems with youth today. They are not taught respect, or morals, at home and when they get into trouble, the parents blames everyone except the child.

As for rehabilitaion, that is a waste of time, money and space. When a person truly wants to rehabilitate himself, he will find a way to do so. These thugs that are in prison and jails today don't want to be rehabilitated and there is no way you can force it on them.
Rememeber the gang banger that Caron interviewed recently? Does anyone think that he is interested in rehad? Please, don't insult me by sugggesting that he is a victim of society. Society is his victim and until we, the law abiding citizens start demanding stiffer punishment for these thugs, our world will only get worse. Forget the millions that the Guilford Co. Sheriff wants to build new jails. A couple of hundred thousand will buy several miles of razor wire and tents.

homeschoolmom read my blog view my photos
Mar 26, 2008 | 10:15 PM

I agree that the removal of God and punishment are part of the problem. It really does begin at home though. As someone else said, the parent stands up for the child even when the child is wrong. When I was growing up, my parents did not spare the rod. If I got in trouble at school, I got in more trouble when I got home. I feel I am a better person because of it. I agree with Just-Me-07, that rehab doesn't do any good if the person doesn't want to change.

patcancook read my blog view my photos
Mar 27, 2008 | 12:56 PM

DW45, please go back & read what you wrote. You are one angry person & that hatred will only eat you up......... But, on the subject, those 2 knew exactly what they were doing and they should get the most harsh punishment possible. Should the 16 yr old get sent to a "boot camp" I personally dont think so. He wanted to do this, did it intentionally, and he should go right in with the adult population. Rehabilitation: well, I just don't see how respect for human life can be rehabilitated. You either have it or you don't. Prayer taken out of schools responsible? Prob not.........why pray in school when evidently these 2 were never taught to pray at home, they didnt miss it in shcool.

isitfair read my blog
Mar 27, 2008 | 2:41 PM

I agree with everyone here. If you do a crime like ALOT of thses young people are commiting then they need to do the time just like any adult would have to. If they think they are old enough to not be in school and getting an education, then LET THEM PULL THE TIME, no matter what age they are. They knew what they was doing when they pulled the trigger or jumped on this helpless amd and beat him. Like one blogger said, PUT THEM IN THE POPULATION and let them see just how tough they really are. My parents displinied myself and my brother and I thank them every day for it. I dont hold no hard feelings or nothing like that, to be quiet honest, we need it......lol...we fought like cats and dogs. One other thing while on the topic of kids and schooling. Whats up with those T.O.T.T. papers? That in my opion is the BIGGEST waste of papers the schools ever come up with. If that was all that I got when I was in school for getting up out my seat ALL the time, talking back to teachers, being disrespectful and everything else they send them papers home for then LOTS of kids that went to school during my years in school would be where ALOT of these kids are now. BRING BACK CORPORAL PUNISHMENT FOR SCHOOLS. By the way DeadLineDiva.... Going to Matinsville in the morning, got any Pit Passes you wanna share. *hugs to you and Chocolate* :)

DW45 read my blog view my photos
Mar 27, 2008 | 7:27 PM

Dear patcancook - you're correct, but I don't have hate (I don't think), just disgust and dismay...Is THIS our Legacy?...Is THIS what we've taught our children? - whether black/ white/ brown?...disrespect (AGGRESSION) for women, the Elderly, anybody SHORTER than us? -

What's the line between between predators and victims? - Age, Sex, Money?

I can't help but wonder if they would have strapped on a 240LB, grown adult man like they did a young girl in College?

grammysuex3 read my blog view my photos
Mar 28, 2008 | 10:14 PM

First of all, where are the parents and just exactly how are they raising their children? Don't they know, or do they even care about what those kids are doing. There is no accountability. Its always someone elses fault that they turned out that way. There are zillions of kids who have a rough life, are living in proverty, but they don't go around beating, robbing or killing just for a few dollars.
They get a slap on the wrist, juvenile until 18 or 21 and back out they come to terrorize again.
If caught doing a crime, first they should be made by the courts to attend a year round school, and if even 1 hour late, off to jail they go.The punishment should fit the crime. Parents should be more responsible. They should know where your kids are, what they are doing and who they are hanging out with. Don't they think something is wrong when the kid comes home with a was of money or expensive shoes they know they didn't buy? If one of mine did that I would have demanded an explanation, and marched their behinds down to the police if they didn't have a good answer When one of my kids got in trouble, thank God they did nothing serious, they were grounded from phone, tv, radio, etc. I had the cleanest house in the neighborhood, the best looking lawn and I am sure they cut and stacked enough wood to keep our home warm for years.

Axekick read my blog view my photos
Mar 29, 2008 | 1:50 PM

"BRING BACK CORPORAL PUNISHMENT FOR SCHOOLS"
I remember sadistic principles beating children back in my day, and with the hidden mental problems of society as a whole no person is qualified to beat my children except my wife and I because we do it out of love. So there is no way in hell I would allow a stranger to whip my children. Think about it the bloggers here are a segment of our community some are teachers, policeofficers, administraitors, etc.
Would any of you be comfortable with me spanking your children in school?

Just-Me-07 read my blog
Mar 29, 2008 | 7:01 PM

Axe, the problem is, the parents aren't taking the responsibility to discipline their children. And if you are truly a parent and a responsible one, then you know that there comes a time when that child should be spanked. And I do know the difference between spanking and abuse. Like you, I don't like the idea of someone else spanking my child but I believe that if there was more spankings and children being held accountable for their actions, we would not have the problems we have today. As for you spanking my child, if you were teaching my child and he was disruptive in your class, if I couldn't correct it, then your spanking him would probably save you and me problems in the future. The thing is, if a child knows that he can be spanked, then he will think twice about his actions before he acts out. If he knows that there will be no consequences to his actions, either at school or home, there is no reason for him to act respectful.

Axekick read my blog view my photos
Mar 29, 2008 | 8:00 PM

Just-me I spank my children when needed but there is no one on these blogs based on the mindset they have shown me that could lay a hand on any of my children. I would never hit another person’s child that was not related to me, if I was teaching your child and I could not find a way to reach your child I would still treat him with respect even as I put him out my class. There are many children who are abused physically, mentally, and sexually so I don't think the threat of violence will save them from problems in the future. We throw the word respect around a lot but in reality the only thing a child or an adult should respect is human life! We respect the life of a pet more than we do a human being if we nurtured humans and focused of being good caregivers to humans as we do dogs and cats the world would be better off when you don’t value human life it makes it east to kill or beat another human and when you feel your life has no value you will not respect another’s life now ponder that for awhile.

oldsoldier read my blog
Mar 30, 2008 | 1:48 AM

J. Edgar Hoover once said " The solution to America's crime problem lies not in the electric chair, but the high chair." Parents, it's up to you, handle your kids before the police have to.

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TV Reporter, NASCAR wife, Mom. From the time I was 10 years old, I knew I would become a journalist. That was when I had my first article published in the St. Petersburg Times. The story was about our class trip to the Museum of Fine Arts, but I was hooked. And I'm still a news hawk - I admit it. I feel extremely privileged to tell other people's stories. I love people, I love being out in the field interacting with people and wouldn't trade it for anything. I was born and raised in the Sunshine State. A fifth-generation Native Floridian, I graduated from Florida State University (go Seminoles!) - the same university my mom, my aunts, my cousins and even my sister attended. I am married to Danny "Chocolate" Myers. Chocolate was the gasman for the late Dale Earnhardt for nearly 20 years and still works with Richard Childress Racing, only now he's in "management". He also hosts a radio show each day from 11 to 3 on Sirius Satellite Radio Channel 128 called "Tradin' Paint." I lost a 10-year-old daughter, Brandy, to leukemia. She was sick for five years. During that time, I spent countless nights at the Ronald McDonald House and logged countless hours with her in and out of the hospital, going through bone marrow aspirates and spinal taps and finally an autologous bone marrow transplant. She was bright and beautiful and I thank God every day for the time we had together. I am also blessed to be the mother of Alexi Nichole. Alexi attends Davidson County Community College, works at the Childress Vineyards and is a "semi-professional wake-boarder!" Last year we sold our old home in Lexington and moved fulltime to the log cabin on High Rock Lake. Some of my favorite sayings are: "God is good all the time, and all the time, God is good." "The events of my life, the circumstances of my life and the people around me in my life do not MAKE me the way I am, they REVEAL the way I am." "Carpe Diem - Seize the Day" and "Here am I, Lord, send me."

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