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All Guys Are Trash & Dirt?????
Apr 3, 2008 | 10:11 AM
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I am quite amazed at some of the posts in here since the recent news of Michigan Senator Debbie Stabenow's husband being caught with a hooker; I find it typical how some can brand all men as dirt and never seem to tell both sides of the story. Now first of all, I am not condoning his actions & I am a firm believer that no one should cheat on their spouse or companion. But it seems that guys are always open season when these types of stories hit the airwaves, Just like many of the MyFox Detoit's Love Doctor's posts & news stories that always seem to state what the guy should do to make the relationship better-What about the woman? Seldom heard are the stories of guys that are creeped on or mentally abused by women-I know because I have caught quite a few of my ex's either sleeping with someone, lying, and even stealing things from me. I now have a very nice fiance named Regina, who is the exception to the rule of some abusive women-She has always been in my corner and we share alot of quality hometime together, as well as regular trips out. All she has to do is think of something and it is provided-Flowers & cards are always popping up in her lap-This is how a relationship survives; By having trust in each other, talking things out and agreeing together on most decisions. When I hear so many women trash guys, I begin to wonder if their choice in them is the problem and if their actions might lead up to such an incident as the ones we hear so much about in the news. The problem is that many guys have too much pride to admit when they have been abused/cheated on by a women and consequently, it never makes the airwaves. I believe Fox News should air segments with men explaining their sides of negative relationships more often. Just my humble opinion & What do you think?
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DW45 read my blog view my photos
Apr 3, 2008 | 12:27 PM

Some pretty sorry creatures on both sides...

A woman marries a man thinking she can CHANGE him...
A man marries a woman thinking she'll NEVER change...

These 2 lines of thought rarely meet in the middle!

I've heard that one too many times for there not to be some truth to both sides!
SunnySkyze
Apr 3, 2008 | 12:38 PM

"I have caught quite a few of my ex's..."
Exactly how many ex's do you have?
Was it always their fault?
Relationships are not a 50/50 thing. Sometimes it's 10/90, sometimes it's 90/10. Sometimes it's 0/100.
Buttwiggles read my blog view my photos
Apr 3, 2008 | 1:28 PM

There is always 2 sides to a story and we never know what goes on behind closed doors (unless they tell!) But I have learned to listen to both sides.
HankHill read my blog
Apr 3, 2008 | 4:34 PM

takes 2 to tango
car7858det2ghp read my blog
Apr 3, 2008 | 5:10 PM

Ex-Girlfriends, SunnySkyz; Actually it was all of their faults because while I was out earning a living & paying the bills, they were having guys over or meeting them other places. I've walked in unexpectedly early from work & caught one "lady" sleeping with the landlord. I treat women with old-fashioned respect and give my last to make sure they are happy. The sorry part is they take my kindness for weakness. My fiance is one heck of a lady and I wouldn't trade her for all the gold in Ft. Knox, and she knows it.
seaangelrainqueen read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2008 | 3:26 AM

car7858, at one time my motto was "Men are pigs!" It changed for awhile and then I saw that a lot of men were! I'm not taking up for the pathetic women who use men for their own gain, either! As far as the politicians who are getting 'caught' with hookers, prostitutes, call girls, or whatever word you would like to use for it; these men are SICK! They are 'purchasing sex' instead of attempting to 're-ignite the flame' with their spouse. You have attested to being married many times, yet you are totally enamored of your fiance. After marriage, many relationships change, and those are the bad ones! If you are going to have any kind of relationship after marriage, it must be a 50/50, sharing, caring, relationship! I agree with "Sunny...", sometimes you have to give more or your partner does, but the childish behavior of 'he/she doesn't give me what I need,' needs to end!!! The people you are speaking of are supposed to be educated individuals who do not have to 'run after women like a dog in heat'! When you run for a public office, it doesn't give you a license to go against the laws (as far as I know prostitution is only legal in Nevada). They destroy their families; well, they should have thought about that when they were 'crawling between the sheets' with people who could have (and may have) given them any number of STDs!!! Just because women are guilty of it doesn't make it any more right for male or female; it is WRONG if you plan to be in a monogamous relationship! I had no problem being faithful to my husband of 15 years before he died, and I have been with
seaangelrainqueen read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2008 | 3:34 AM

(Oops, I'm long-winded, LOL!) I have been with my fiance for six plus years and I have never cheated on him. Morals should come into thought at sometime. And elected officials should especially be aware that not only do they have a great deal of authority, but can do a lot of damage with their 'superiority complex'! They may not care if they destroy their families or not, but I'm sure that their families care that they do just that! Is that the reason in the first place that they are running for office; to feel 'above others'??? Well, they are not above me!!! And, I am not excusing the women who do the same thing. But, all of these immoral people need to think of something other than their own 'pleasure'; such as the STD's that they could/can bring home to their unknowing partner!!! While your fiance is getting 'flowers', their spouses are getting STD's! Not a trade that I would want to make!!!
caddyboy read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2008 | 8:42 AM

No happy marriage ends in divorce.......
caddyboy read my blog view my photos
Apr 4, 2008 | 12:07 PM

Here is an honest question.
What is the difference between being sexually faithful in an non married siuation verses a married situation?
Does that make sense?
caddy
car7858det2ghp read my blog
Apr 4, 2008 | 1:56 PM

The difference to me is that one is being faithful & truthful in both cases. Being sexually faithful to one's companion/spouse should never even be an issue in a real relationship/marraige.
car7858det2ghp read my blog
Apr 4, 2008 | 2:04 PM

seaangelrainqueen-Very good input and I thank you for your opinion. You made alot of valid points, especially concerning the ones that go to hookers, etc. Anyone that would do that then attempt to bring it home to their partner is sick beyond repair.
DW45 read my blog view my photos
Apr 6, 2008 | 2:49 AM

Sorry, Caddy, don't mean to sound cheap.....BUT -

1: It means keeping your britches up (at the very least!) -

2: You don't really want that "Gift that keeps on Giving", do you?
DW45 read my blog view my photos
Apr 6, 2008 | 2:52 AM

Sorry, again Caddyboy (my bad) -

Think of it as duct tape vs. a Chastity Belt!
UncommonValor
Apr 6, 2008 | 11:48 AM

Men are pigs. Women are all Ms. Piggy. For as long as man-kind has existed, these types of relationships have been going on. And, they will continue to take place. Every time a man has a sexual relationship, so does a woman, with the occasional exception of certain Senators and Representative and Governors.
car7858det2ghp read my blog
Apr 6, 2008 | 4:23 PM

I couldn't look at men & women as a whole that way; That type of negativity is pretty much the first reason a new relationship could never blossom. Only by trial & error does a person ever find the right person, and many times they meet quite by accident or coincidence.
DW45 read my blog view my photos
Apr 10, 2008 | 7:27 PM

My 2nd Wife and I both SWORE (LOUDLY) at one time we would NEVER get married again! - We didn't know each other 'til THE FIRST DATE...

Well, here we are...at least we can learn as we go.....I prefer to think of my 1st as my "starter wife"...a very polite term, considering how many I was unknowingly "sharing" with.....took YEARS and TEARS to get past that, though there was never a question of willing "company".....I just decided to keep this one (as opposed to throwing it back) -

BUT.....contrary to the old saying, - No, sometimes anything is NOT better than being alone!
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I am presently disabled due to a work injury in the construction field. I was born & raised in Detroit for over 40 years. I presently reside in Macomb County, in recovery since April 4, 2004. I tend to post & reply from actual experiences and topics that lean towards informing people about positive things, while making sure that the real story isn't lost in the shuffle. My posts & comments are my opinion, letting you be the judge based on the issue & current events. (Good ole Disclaimer stuff). I am all for America & Americans, but not for government control & political games. I don't candy coat nothing & give what I receive. Life is too short to play mind games or waste my time with negativity. Welcome! BTW, I now blog in 12 other sister MyFox websites, along with my home blogsite of MyFox Detroit-WJBK, as follows: Cleveland--WJW, Boston--WFXT, D.C.--WTTG, Greensboro High Point N.C.--WGHP, Atlanta--WAGA, Birmingham Alabama--WBRC, St. Louis--KTVI, Twin Cities--KSMP, Tampa Bay--WTVT, Milwaukee--WITI, Chicago--WFLD, New York--WNYW, and Memphis--WHBQ. One way to stay in recovery & keep busy!

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